Not sure I agree. Also I didn't PM him....he PM'ed me....seemingly to laugh at me I guess. Starting off a message with "tsk tsk" sort of tells me that you're taking a piss.
I think it's reasonable that if you spend over a decade in an environment you tend to develop relationships with some over others. As a natural consequence, the nature of your relationship with the aforementioned would change. You become less formal and more familiar. This is pretty standard.
Sage used his privileges as moderators to give me a yellow card....then send me a message about it and is all like "tsk tsk" i.e. sending confusing signals. A friend would be able to fuck with you that way....but then a friend would allow you to respond in kind....not report you to the Speech Police for hate speech.
If he was being a moderator (only) then why write it that way? Why not just be professional and send a cold factual message stating that this post that you edited before anyone even commented on it is deserving of a yellow card. Then it would be clear that he was just doing his job as a moderator.
But the way the message is worded is very confusing. It's like a bro that just pranked you is now laughing at you. Either way his action to send it to necro, who looks for the tiniest and flimsiest of excuses to ban me...even without precedent...proves everything. There are other former users who are similarly confounded by the recent change towards increased authoritarianism and have even said that they wouldn't return to R&B. To me this is a loss to the forum since some of these guys are foundational members and quality posters. They come from the old era where posters were witty and edgy....not the "watch your tone" bullshit we see today.
If you and I are talking Jenny...first of all you know that I harbour no ill will towards you. So any insulting shit I say would usually be just guys talking. Hence I tell you fuck off and eat a dick regularly. You can do the same. This is how guys talk.....Don't you call up any of your bro's and say "what's up ******?" etc
And if something genuinely offended you, then I'd stop saying it....like Kuja told me that he genuinely feels uncomfortable being called a ******.....and I stopped because at that point, it would be the decent thing to do.
That's just how I think anyway.
Anyway that's all done. I know better now. I'll say what I want in my vlogs and let PC Principal and his sidekick speech police the place North Korea style.
We live in the age of "muh hate speech" and "peoplekind" etc