Dating / Relationship Help Thread - Page 9

Nestafan · 24-01-2014, 13:38

So i got this girls number last friday.
We've been texting a bit this week, and i eventually asked if she wanted to meet up this weekend. Said she had a friend coming down from Belfast this weekend, and then had a 21st to go to on saturday night aswell. I'm taking she is teling the truth.

So i'll ask her one more time maybe next week, and if she declines on a second occasion, i think move on, no?

goja · 30-01-2014, 13:46

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Originally Posted by Nestafan

So i got this girls number last friday.
We've been texting a bit this week, and i eventually asked if she wanted to meet up this weekend. Said she had a friend coming down from Belfast this weekend, and then had a 21st to go to on saturday night aswell. I'm taking she is teling the truth.

So i'll ask her one more time maybe next week, and if she declines on a second occasion, i think move on, no?

rule of thumb is try twice. unless she's really hot, in that case try three times. but generally act like you're already over it. since its been a week, how did it go?

(we have a thread for everything now haha)

ww · 30-01-2014, 13:55

you'll never know if she's telling the truth and this isn't even necessary

I'd try not sending my messages for a while, just to see if you mess up with her head, making her prove that she was telling the true and is still getting soaked for you

goja · 30-01-2014, 14:05

that only works if you shagged her already. girls get hit on all the time, her short attention span will just move on. if she's busy again, fuck it and then do the same

BrasilianMilan · 31-01-2014, 03:36

You only live twice, if things don't materialize, then move on. As long as you know that you're making progress by asking them out, that's what you should be happy about

Good luck Nestafan

Ragazza · 31-01-2014, 17:25

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Originally Posted by Nestafan

So i'll ask her one more time maybe next week, and if she declines on a second occasion, i think move on, no?

it's very possible the first weekend you asked her out she just had a lot of plans.

if she declines a second time without offering another suggestion of when to meet, then move on

joy · 11-03-2014, 12:29

Disclaimer: This is just a fictional story, to motivate our young forum members. This must not be taken as any form of advice or suggestion.

There was this kid whose mother told him not to think of any girl till he joins undergrad/grad course, since thinking about girls could impact his performance in important areas of life.

The kid took mother's advice rather seriously, did not look at girls even if he studied in co-ed school, then went to all-boys' residential school and finally joined the grad/undergrad course and suddenly remembered mother's advice.

The guy went straight to a girl and proposed. The girl said that she was engaged. And boy, she was really engaged..she was not bluffing. In the final year the girl got married and the guy got a job. And guess what, the guy again remembered his mother's advice!

The guy again went straight and again proposed a girl in the junior batch. The girl was from a different community with a different mother tongue. The guy moved on since he believed the project was not feasible due to all incompatibilities. Also he was inexperienced at that time, so he did not know the right things to do!

The guy joined job and again went straight to propose the next girl. This girl was supposed to go to Europe for study and the guy had decided to remain in India- so time-space issues made the project not feasible. Additionally inexperience and language/cutural barrier were probable issues.

And then of course the guy proposed his colleague who happened to be his neighbor too. This time also language/cultural barrier was there but inexperience was relatively less and passion bordered on psychoness. The girl called the guy's father and said she could report to police. Finally the girl married him through a thorough arranged marriage!

Moral of the story: As far as marriages are concerned, arranged marriage system is very efficient and saves a lot of time.

Ragazza · 19-03-2014, 20:33

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Originally Posted by joy

Moral of the story: As far as marriages are concerned, arranged marriage system is very efficient and saves a lot of time.

i suppose it would save time if your end goal only was to be married

but if your end goal is to be in a relationship with someone you love and with someone who loves you, regardless of whether the relationship moves onto a marital state, then a pre-arranged marriage would probably not be the best route. because it takes time to find someone to love

personally, i think getting married to someone just to "be married" sounds like an outdated and potentially limiting life choice

Benz_1803 · 02-04-2014, 16:25

i cant move on, help

Ragazza · 02-04-2014, 16:39

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Originally Posted by Benz_1803

i cant move on, help

tell us...we're here for you with internet *hugs*

Senatore_M84 · 02-04-2014, 16:51

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Originally Posted by benz_1803

i cant move on, help

ovo

Benz_1803 · 02-04-2014, 17:05

nevermind, i will solve this soon...thanks ragazza.

joyrider · 24-05-2014, 23:58

life lesson:

Don't get on 1 knee for a girl who will not get on 2 knees for you.

dcfcfan1 · 25-05-2014, 00:15

As my dad would say: God made holes so we fuck things in it

Nestafan · 08-11-2015, 13:02

I like this girl at my college.

She's 20, i'm 25.

Am I too old for her?

Qaas · 08-11-2015, 13:08

Nope. Go for it

General · 08-11-2015, 13:13

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Originally Posted by Nestafan

I like this girl at my college.

She's 20, i'm 25.

Am I too old for her?

Hell no

Not even close

Some girl at a bar told me some stupid formula once..

Divide the younger person's age by two and add 7? Something stupid

But if you're both in your 20's, you shouldn't even be asking.

Even a 29 yo dating a 20 year old... I don't think people would bat an eye

Azzurrii-08 · 08-11-2015, 14:19

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Originally Posted by General

Hell no

Not even close

Some girl at a bar told me some stupid formula once..

Divide the younger person's age by two and add 7? Something stupid

But if you're both in your 20's, you shouldn't even be asking.

Even a 29 yo dating a 20 year old... I don't think people would bat an eye

Your age / 2 + 7 yeah.

joyrider · 08-11-2015, 20:03

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Originally Posted by Nestafan

I like this girl at my college.

She's 20, i'm 25.

Am I too old for her?

be yourself and funny

poon awaits you

dcfcfan1 · 08-11-2015, 22:24

hope it goes well. My twin brother is also trying to get a girlfriend

24-01-2014, 13:38	#161
Nestafan Long Hair > Mohawk Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Ireland Fav. Players: Nesta, Ibra, Crespo, Pirlo. Current AC - Jack, Romagnoli, Suso, Locatelli, Cutrone, Abate, Storari.	So i got this girls number last friday. We've been texting a bit this week, and i eventually asked if she wanted to meet up this weekend. Said she had a friend coming down from Belfast this weekend, and then had a 21st to go to on saturday night aswell. I'm taking she is teling the truth. So i'll ask her one more time maybe next week, and if she declines on a second occasion, i think move on, no?

30-01-2014, 13:55	#163
ww Banned Join Date: Jun 2010 Fav. Players: Lugano, Raí, Rogério Ceni, Ambrosini, Gattuso	you'll never know if she's telling the truth and this isn't even necessary I'd try not sending my messages for a while, just to see if you mess up with her head, making her prove that she was telling the true and is still getting soaked for you

30-01-2014, 14:05	#164
goja Im back baby Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Paris-Belgrade Fav. Players: Maldini, Gattuso, Nesta, Pippo, Pirlo, De Sciglio	that only works if you shagged her already. girls get hit on all the time, her short attention span will just move on. if she's busy again, fuck it and then do the same

31-01-2014, 03:36	#165
BrasilianMilan Eternal Rossonero Join Date: Oct 2009 Fav. Players: Sheva, Maldini, Kaka, Van Basten, Nesta, Inzaghi, Seedorf, Bonaventura	You only live twice, if things don't materialize, then move on. As long as you know that you're making progress by asking them out, that's what you should be happy about Good luck Nestafan

11-03-2014, 12:29	#167
joy Banned Join Date: Apr 2013	Disclaimer: This is just a fictional story, to motivate our young forum members. This must not be taken as any form of advice or suggestion. There was this kid whose mother told him not to think of any girl till he joins undergrad/grad course, since thinking about girls could impact his performance in important areas of life. The kid took mother's advice rather seriously, did not look at girls even if he studied in co-ed school, then went to all-boys' residential school and finally joined the grad/undergrad course and suddenly remembered mother's advice. The guy went straight to a girl and proposed. The girl said that she was engaged. And boy, she was really engaged..she was not bluffing. In the final year the girl got married and the guy got a job. And guess what, the guy again remembered his mother's advice! The guy again went straight and again proposed a girl in the junior batch. The girl was from a different community with a different mother tongue. The guy moved on since he believed the project was not feasible due to all incompatibilities. Also he was inexperienced at that time, so he did not know the right things to do! The guy joined job and again went straight to propose the next girl. This girl was supposed to go to Europe for study and the guy had decided to remain in India- so time-space issues made the project not feasible. Additionally inexperience and language/cutural barrier were probable issues. And then of course the guy proposed his colleague who happened to be his neighbor too. This time also language/cultural barrier was there but inexperience was relatively less and passion bordered on psychoness. The girl called the guy's father and said she could report to police. Finally the girl married him through a thorough arranged marriage! Moral of the story: As far as marriages are concerned, arranged marriage system is very efficient and saves a lot of time.

02-04-2014, 16:25	#169
Benz_1803 classic 1994 Join Date: Jun 2011 Fav. Players: Milan legendary	i cant move on, help

02-04-2014, 17:05	#172
Benz_1803 classic 1994 Join Date: Jun 2011 Fav. Players: Milan legendary	nevermind, i will solve this soon...thanks ragazza.

24-05-2014, 23:58	#173
joyrider Il Moderati Join Date: Feb 2004	life lesson: Don't get on 1 knee for a girl who will not get on 2 knees for you.

25-05-2014, 00:15	#174
dcfcfan1 AC Milan Legend Join Date: May 2014 Location: UK Luton	As my dad would say: God made holes so we fuck things in it

08-11-2015, 13:02	#175
Nestafan Long Hair > Mohawk Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Ireland Fav. Players: Nesta, Ibra, Crespo, Pirlo. Current AC - Jack, Romagnoli, Suso, Locatelli, Cutrone, Abate, Storari.	I like this girl at my college. She's 20, i'm 25. Am I too old for her?

08-11-2015, 13:08	#176
Qaas Mystery Guy Join Date: Jul 2012 Location: Danmark Fav. Players: KAKA, Maldini, Nesta, Dida, Inzaghi, Sheva, TSilva, R9, Raul, Casillas, Schmeichel, Messi	Nope. Go for it

08-11-2015, 22:24	#180
dcfcfan1 AC Milan Legend Join Date: May 2014 Location: UK Luton	hope it goes well. My twin brother is also trying to get a girlfriend